Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Baggage

Okay so all of my closest friends are having big troubles right now and it just happens to be coming all at once. I have been having this trouble with the a guy I met. We were just friends and talking to each other all of the time, but over this weekend we didn't talk at all so when I got back onto campus he seemed to not want to talk to me and started acting really strange around me. So I thought there was something up and that he didn't like me as a friend anymore. Well my one friend said that she would try to help me in the situation. She did get a chance to ask him if he was mad at me or if there was something wrong and he said that he wasn't mad at me and that there was nothing wrong. So eventually he started to talk to me again and I asked if there was anything new and his responds was that "i have a gf but its not official yet." Oh and I forgot to mention that during chapel today we were to let go of things that were holding us back from getting to know God and grow in Him. So I gave God my problem with the guy because it was taking up all of my time. Then right after service we went to lunch and I saw him there with another girl and they were hugging and he was acting different then the way he usually acts with his other girl buds. So my first thought was he found another girl and I told my friends that and they said that its probably nothing. Well then I when they were walking out of the cafeteria they were holding hands, so right there told me that it was something. So I am really glad that I let go of that problem and gave it to God because if I didn't let it all go I probably would have been really hurt at seeing that. So luckily I am so glad that he finally told me this and talked to me cause now I don't feel like he's mad at me or anything in that nature. And I know understand why he wasn't talking to me and I am ok with it. But to top it all off I started talking to another guy and we are becoming very close as friends and he knows that I am not looking for a relationship so hopefully nothing turns out as bad as the other one did.

Ok so I am not the only one who is having the trouble or baggage on my back my one friends has a problem with her two roommates getting into her stuff and not asking before using. And they are starting to accuse her for all of the problems. So she does not know what to do about it. We keep telling her to talk to our RA and ask her to help in the situation. So tonight she finally did ask the Ra for help and has it pretty much all figured out.

And another friend is dealing with problems that keep happening back home. And she is getting all of her roommates baggage on top of it.

I just ask that you pray for all of us here that all of the problems will be straighten out correctly and that nothing else will happen that shouldn't. I also ask that you pray for all of us who have the strength to get through the problems that we still have to deal with.

2 comments:

Debbie said...

I will definitely be praying! Relax, you are there for a purpose. Stay focused girl! Sarah had to do the same thing. I love you!

Jordan@Me and My 8 said...

Drama drama drama.

Regarding the "old" guy- ALWAYS check the source of your advice. I don't know your friends, but seems to me people who don't know what they are talking about will give you bad advice. Are these girls qualified to give you relationship advice? Have they been in successful relationships for a long time to be able to tell you what a guy is thinking and how you should act? Please be careful. Silly girls will get you in trouble. :)

Regarding the new guy- Just enjoy life! You are young and newly in college. ENJOY IT! You WILL find your mate and you WILL spend the rest of your life with him. So just enjoy now! It is hard when you see people around you finding boyfriends but you will have no regrets if you enjoy your life and wait for God to plop that guy in your lap.